PART 1 - Internalizing Client Trauma and Setting Healthy Boundaries

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Part 1 – Join Marion Harding-Soare and I for a candid conversation between friends and colleagues about internalizing our client’s trauma; setting healthy boundaries; telling the truth and practicing self-care.

Part 2 is our next blog post and video and will discuss finding tools to deal with your s**t, saying YES to what is meant for you, and saying NO without guilt, excuses or justification.

**TRIGGER WARNING** We are discussing some sensitive subject matter including internalizing client trauma, most particularly, historical sexual assault.

Marion Harding-Soare is a contract paralegal, teacher, and business owner, the current President of the Better Business Bureau of Vancouver Island and has over 30 years of experience in law firms and committees and board work in the legal community.

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